A marriage does not guarantee love for ever. Even when a couple stay together for life, most times it is not out of love but because they have gotten too comfortable with each other and do not want to change their daily patterns. The same could happen to you too. You could be happily married, but there could be no love in your marriage as you and your husband get bogged down with the responsibilities of managing your home, work and kids. When familiarity sets in, there is very little love to go around. A loving marriage and a husband who loves you are important to make you happy and healthy. Here are some ways in which you can make your husband love you again.

Make it a point to spend some alone time with him every day. Finish all your work a little early and go to bed with a fresh mind. Sometimes, you might be spending the whole day under the same roof with him, but not really talk to him. Talk to him more and understand him more to make him love you again.

Women always complain that men do not treat them the same way they treated them when they were going out. Although this is true, women are not completely blameless either. Women change too, after the wedding. Try to be as close to the person you were when you two were in love and he will love you again with the same fervor.

Sex is an important part of a marriage. With kids and work, you might not look forward to it more often or enjoy it with the same fervor you used to when you were just married. Get creative in bed and try out new positions and play act new scenarios to make your husband love you love

Marriage is an institution that is both revered and also hated by many. People who do not like marriage are those who think that you do not need an official seal to your relationship. But a lot of people get married and they are in the majority. No one gets married thinking it is for a short while, many a times people get married because they have decided to spend their lives with someone. Marriage in most cases is long term and to stay happy for a long time in a marriage, you need to fill it with love and also romance. The mundane things about daily life usually kill off the love and the romance in a marriage. It is very important to bring in romance and up the factor now and then if you want to stay satisfied and happy with the same person for years. Here are some ways in which you can make your marriage more romantic.

The three simple words can go a long way in changing the nature of your marriage. You do not have to stop expressing your love for your partner just because you are married. Saying I love you makes you a romantic person and someone who can express their feeling without being embarrassed about it. Go ahead and say it as many times as you can in a day to make your marriage more romantic.

You can act like love smitten people and just get away to some place for a day or two without really planning. There is a lot of fun and excitement when you really have not planned anything and you just enjoy the trip as you make it.

Take as much care in your dressing as you would have when you were single and planning to meet someone. Look gorgeous and go out to have a romantic dinner or a booze filled party. Sometimes doing stupid things like getting drunk and making out in the car can also make your marriage more romantic and exciting. Just make sure you do not create a nuisance in the whole process.

 6 Tips for Making Him More Romantic 

Has there been a lull in your relationship recently? Is your boyfriend’s attention waning away from you? Here are a few things you can do to ignite a romantic spark in him and make him more romantic than ever before.

You may be making yourself too easily available to your boyfriend because of which he could have lost interest in you. Don’t make him take you for granted by being there at his beck and call all the time. If you want to make him yearn for you, ignore him and be unavailable whenever he expects you to be there. This will make him sit up and take notice that your attention towards him is not the same as before. As a result, he may try to up his game up becoming more caring and romantic.

Making your boyfriend jealous is a sure shot way to make him realize that he is not being romantic enough. When your boyfriend is looking, flirt with another guy in a way that he becomes jealous. Keep doing this until you notice that your boyfriend has started becoming concerned. Show him that other guys will readily become romantic with you if he doesn’t.

It may be the case that your boyfriend wants to become more intimate with you but he doesn’t know how to. If he is introverted and shy, he may find it difficult to flirt with you or woo you in a romantic way. Make it a point to drop subtle verbal hints of being romantic when you talk to him. For example, if you have just seen a romantic movie with him, tell him how you wish be in the actress’ shoes. 

Source : Mag for Women

You'll always be my one and only,
the one I'll never forget.
The times we share are always special,
memories, I won't ever regret.

I care for you deeply
and give to you my heart.
I always knew you could be the one for me,
I fell in love with you, right from the start.

All I want to do is hold you close
and never let you go.
Tell me you'll stay here with me,
please, don't tell me, 'No'.

Your love comforts me at night,
it never leaves me lonely.
You're all I'll ever need in life,
you are truly my one and only.

Please let me love you, surrender your heart and give me at least one chance to prove to you how I feel. 

Please let my love show you all the ways in my heart, that my love for you is so right and so real.

Please allow me to open my heart's fragile doors and embrace you, holding you close to me.

 Please let me demonstrate that my love can give your heart wings and set you free.

 Please let me prove my worthiness that I will never hurt you like you've been hurt so many times before.

 Please lend me your heart even if just for a moment and together in love, on the wings of passion to the heavens in ecstasy we will soar.

 Please don't be afraid to accept my love, please don't push me away. If you let me in your life, I will prove to you my love will never fade, and as long as you still want me, I promise by your side I will stay.

 Please try to understand that I cannot change how I feel for you overnight. I love you and that is simply a fact.

 Please know that as I gaze up at the first stars of the evening, and wish that you were still mine, my salty tears are shining in the soft moonlight.

 Please let me love you, for no matter how far apart or how different our relationship may be, we are meant to be together and this I pray that you will soon see.

 Please just love me, for this is all I'll ever ask, and in return, I'll always love you right back.

 Baby this is hard for me,
 More than you'll ever know,
 I'm falling for you quickly,
 My love just grows and grows.
 I want your arms around me,
 I want you to hold me tight,
 I can't fight this feeling,
 No matter what I try.
 I'm scared that I will lose you,
 I don't want you to go,
 You showed me the meaning of love,
 Something I have never known.
 When you are away,
 I wonder what you do,
 Scared that you will go, 
 Find somebody new.
 Baby I do love you,
 But it is hard for me to say.
 I want you by my side,
 Each and every day.
 I promise I will treat you,
 The best that I know how. 
 Loving you is easy,
 It will always make me proud.
 I know what people say,
 They don't think that we will last.
 But God is on our side,
 He forgot about our past.
 I think that we will make it,
 I don't care what others say,
 God brought us together for a reason,
 And I am thankful every day.
 Do you feel this feeling
 That I feel deep in my heart?
 I think God's trying to tell us,
 We were never meant to be apart.
 Love Always

With every moment we spend together I feel more and more alive,
but every time you say goodbye part of my heart and soul still dies.

I yearn to hold you in my arms again and hug with a passionate 
  squeeze, baby please,
The pain of missing you hurts like a deadly disease,

Only healed by the delicate tones and the words that you speak,
but like TLC sang, baby my knees still get so weak,

And I lose control of my senses with unfathomed desire,
with this unquenchable thirst, only sated by the fire

In your eyes, your heart, your spirit mind and soul,
ever since I first met you, you've taken a strong hold

Of my heart when it was empty and at its most hollow
and you filled it with your charm and a path for this lost soul 
  to follow

That led straight to your heart...one way in and no way out,
and showed me this inner love I can never live without.

It's like a smooth sonnet or a melodic rhapsody,
the way you just eased into my life and fully captured me

In your sweet web of charm...if it's a dream, let me sleep
into eternity, never to leave this blissful retreat.

I dream of your silky brown hair and your soft, wet lips,
gentle touches, massages, caresses from your smooth fingertips.

I dream our love for each other is finally revealed
in one kiss so passionate our ecstasy unreels

And entangled us two lovers in a knot so tough,
that all the miles that separate us would never be enough

To keep us from being each other's king and queen, on the throne 
  of desire,
vowing together forever, with an endless love that will never tire.

Oh, to be together again.

89 Tips for a Divorce-Proof Marriage:

 

 

1. Do it by surprise from time to time, leave love notes around the house.

 

2.Work as a team.

 

3. Say I love you to one another everyday.

 

4. Give a hug or kiss everyday

 

5. Do not withhold sex unless its a mutual consent or special circumstances!

 

6. At least one date night once a week, and go over and beyond to make it special

 

7. Become each others best friend

 

8. Let no one get involved with your marital affairs includes parents, in laws and friends!

 

9. Exercise and work out together

 

10. Put your children first, then your marriage, then your extended family, then everything else in that order.

 

11. Become transparent with one another.

 

12. Set boundaries for your marriage. It's important that you both know what you can and cannot do.

 

13. Lay aside your pride and ego – the winner of the argument is usually the loser!

 

14. Make his or her favorite meal.

 

15. Do things your spouse loves without you basing it on their performance.

 

16. Don’t go tit for tat. Learn to let go.

 

17. Don’t let the sun go down while you angry – another words try to resolve the issue ASAP

 

18. Fellowship, and get around other happily married couples

 

19. Plan and surprise your spouse with a romantic vacations as your budget allows

 

20. Live a healthy lifestyle

 

21. Look into his or her eyes, touch their face and give thanks for him or her who puts up with you during the good and bad times

 

22. Don’t lie to each other. A hard truth is always better then an easy lie

 

23. Ask your mate if their are any needs going unmet.

 

24. Spend some type of quality time with your spouse

 

25. Invest in your marriage – do a marriage retreat at least 2x a year

 

26. Read Quran together and discuss God's plan for marriage.

 

27. Renew your vows – remember your promise to your spouse at the alter – for better or worse in sickness and in health.

 

28. Be ready to make many sacrifices – things you may not feel like doing – but do them anyway

 

29. Be ready to make many compromises.

 

30. Listen to your spouse’s guidance.

 

31. Ask your mate for areas where they can improve in.

 

32. Hear one another out.

 

33. Try to resolve problems and issues when your both calm.

 

34. Instead of trying to be right look for the solution that brings peace.

 

35. Do not use sarcasm.

 

36. Tell your spouse you can’t live without them.

 

37. If you know you did wrong, be ready to make things right.

 

38. Be ready to apologize and be ready to forgive when the situation arises.

 

39. Fight for your marriage!

 

40. Don’t focus on your spouse weakness but focus on their strengths.

 

41. Keep good company around you and your ,you want people who can encourage and uplift you!

 

42. Husbands help out around the house – remember that your wife is a helpmate but that doesn't mean she does everything.

 

43. Wives encourage your husband give them praise, it strengthens them.

 

44. Find out your strengths and weaknesses and be ready to help one another with where you are weak.

 

45. Support one another goals and dreams.

 

46. Always consult one another when making big decisions

 

47. Give many compliments to one another

 

48. Understand the grass is not greener , you just have to water your lawn more

 

49. Don’t compare your marriage with someone else’s – you dont know whats goign on behind closed doors

 

50. Watch what you take into your spirit. Today’s reality shows, our society’s view, and what you see on TV are not good examples for marriage.

 

51. Never embarrass your spouse in public – deal with your issues in private

 

52. Wives spend time encouraging him and supporting him and their is nothing you won’t happily get.

 

53. Do not verbally abuse your spouse.

 

54. Do not physically abuse your spouse.

 

55. Do not bring up your past arguments, and disagreements.

 

56. Never bring up or use something in an argument, your spouse told you in confidence about him or her.

 

57. Let your spouse know you can be trusted.

 

58. Don’t give your spouse any reason to feel insecure.

 

59. Read books on becoming a better husband.

 

60. Read books on becoming a better wife.

 

61. Learn your spouses love language.

 

62. Always be in a learning process with getting to know your spouses likes and dislikes.

 

63. Husbands make love to her mind during the day and the rest will follow

 

64. Try not to let your children see you in disagreement or arguing.

 

65. Husbands surprise her with roses and the like, not just for birthdays, holidays and anniversary, but just because

 

66. Wives, your husbans love surprises also, put on one of his favorite nighties just because.

 

67. Don’t always try to get your way, but try to find a way that works for both of you

 

68. Alone time – yes its needed, but don’t go overboard. Let your mate know your thinking of them

 

69. Its healthy to have your time with friends, so long as they respect your marriage

 

70. Never cheat.

 

71. Never try to justify a wrong.

 

72. Stay fit and stay looking your best for your husband or wife.

 

73. Hear your spouse out before jumping to conclusions.

 

74. Don’t keep your spouse in the dark about things.

 

75. Never bad mouth your spouse to anyone.

 

76. Keep your love life between the two of you.

 

77. Your objective should be to make your spouse a better person as a result of being with you not by control but by love.

 

78. Open your spouse up to new things that are healthy for him or her.

 

79. Be open to new things, allow your spouse the chance to treat you like a king or queen

 

80. Communicate – he or she cannot read your mind.

 

81. Say what you mean, mean what you say.

 

82. Take your time to cool off, but when you start acting like room-mates your marriage is in trouble

 

83. Love, respect, loyalty and faithfulness should all be a given.

 

84. Have a vision and purpose for your marriage

 

85. Keep in mind your spouse is not your enemy but your best friend

 

86. Don’t look at marriage as an obligation but look at it as chance to love your mate unconditionally.

 

87. Our character should reflect the fruits of the spirit, love, patience, kindness, long suffering

 

88. Your objective should not be to change your spouse, but for your spouse to see your change

 

89. You cant change your spouse, but you can change how you love them and how you react to them

I don't know how to explain it,
If only you could truly see,
How much I really care for you,
How much you mean to me.

I look forward to seeing you every day,
The grin that belongs only to you,
When I see you I can't help but smile,
There is just something about you.

When you put your hand in mine,
My heart suddenly beats faster,
I wish I could tell you right then and there,
That my life could never be better.

When you wrap your arms around me,
For a simple, gentle hug,
I want to stay in that moment forever,
And tell you how much you really are loved.

When we gradually come close enough together,
Our lips touch, a kiss,
Nothing around us seems to matter,
Because there is nothing sweeter than this.

No words could ever express how much you mean to me,
I hope you have these feelings for me, too;
I can't figure out just what it is,
But there is definitely something very special about you.

I Don't Ever Want To Lose You

by Dyan L Gomes 

 

 

I know at times I have not been the best,
and there were times that I have failed your tests.
There were days when you were oh-so alone,
a couple of sad times with no-one's fault but my own.

I would give you anything I can, anything at all,
I wish I could be there to catch every tear that might fall.
I wish that forever wasn't just a word you say.
I love you, baby, please don't go away.

I may not be your knight in shinning armor, as you see,
but only for you I am being the best I can be.
I love you even more than you know,
you never leave me, you're in my heart wherever I go.

Please kiss me and hold me so tight,
encourage me that things will be all right,
That I am not wrong for loving a person like you,
a person who makes all of my dreams come true.

A true person I am, as I always will be,
I have been very stupid lately, please forgive me.
Give me one more chance, hell, maybe two,
but whatever happens I don't ever want to lose you.

We've been together for a while now, and I need to let you know 
Just how it would make me feel inside if you ever let me go. 
My heart would break without a doubt, I don't know what I'd do 
The pain would be unbearable, I can't bear the thought of losing you. 

 We've had a lot of good times, and we've shared a lot of the bad 
But we are always there to help each other when one of us is sad. 
You are more than a friend to me, you're my soul, my life, my love 
And since the moment I laid eyes on you, I've thanked the lord above. 

Although we're together now, let's hope there's many more years to come 
You'll always have my heart, you've always been that "special someone." 
The way you've held me in your arms over these past few years 
And the way I'll always be there for you, to wipe away the tears. 

You know you have my heart, and I hope I have yours, too 
I'll stay by your side forever, if that's what you want me to do. 
I guess this poem is just a way of showing you that we are meant to be So, 
do me this honor, give me your hand...  
"Will you marry me?"

  I LOVE YOU