I Promise YOU my LOVE forever

I promise you my love forever

There's so many things that I love about you

I could name so many things you continue to do

You always stand by my side and show you care

Good times and bad you’re always there.

In sad times you always manage to make me smile

The way you promise we’ll be together to walk down the aisle

I love the moment we look into each others eyes

A love so beautiful I have invisible happy cries

I love the way we both know that we belong

Through tough times we’ve proven to always be strong

The warmth of your hug when you hold me tight

In bad times you promise everything will be alright

I love it when you tell me we’ll always be forever

I know now and all our days we’ll face everything together

Times that are hard and my eyes start to cry

Your hand is always there to wipe them dry

I love spending my days with you, they are so much fun

Together on rainy days and under the glowing sun

I love seeing you in the day and dreaming of you at night

I keep every memory with me and you’re never out of my sight

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Missing You

by John E Firhill

Missing, longing, waiting, yearning
Waves of passion gushing, churning
Minutes, hours, daylight burning 
Unforseen emotions stirring

Moments fleeting, memories flashing
pain increasing, never ceasing
Skin a'tingling, fear of failing
Heart with anguish now is ailing    
   
Hungering, thirsting for your touching
Lacking closeness, pillow clutching
Soul on fire, dawn encroaching
Tomorrow's coming, relief approaching!

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How to Build Better Boundaries in Your Marriage?

Imagine the following scenario: A husband and wife are in a session with their therapist. She says that he’s always angry with her and makes mean comments. When the therapist asks her husband why he’s constantly mad, he replies that it’s because his wife tries to control him.

According to the wife, she tries to exert control because her husband doesn’t give her any time or attention. He says that’s because she’s always nagging him. She says she nags because he won’t do anything she wants.

It’s a prime illustration of not taking responsibility for your own actions, attitudes, thoughts or feelings. And that’s where boundaries come in.

The above example comes from the book Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices that Make or Break Loving Relationships by psychologists Henry Cloud, Ph.D, and John Townsend, Ph.D.

Boundaries Are About You

When you have clear boundaries, you know where you end and your partner begins, according to Cloud and Townsend. You also know that you’re not at the mercy of your spouse’s behavior or their problems.

Boundaries are really about you.

“When you build a fence around your yard, you do not build it to figure out the boundaries of your neighbor’s yard so that you can dictate to him how he is to behave. You build it around your own yard so that you can maintain control of what happens to your own property,” according to the authors.

That’s also how personal boundaries work. You can’t control how your spouse speaks to you. But you can control how you behave when they speak to you in that way. For instance, if they start yelling or calling you names, you can hang up the phone or leave the room.

In other words, you determine what you will and won’t tolerate or be exposed to. And you set consequences. Another example is eating dinner by yourself when your spouse is late, again. Other consequences may be more severe, such as separating.

Boundaries also may include emotional distance, such as: “When you can be kind, we can be close again,” or “When you show you are serious about getting some help, I will feel safe enough to open up to you again.”

Setting Boundaries with Yourself

It’s also important to set boundaries with yourself (i.e., not trying to change your spouse but focusing on changing yourself).

In the book Cloud and Townsend include an example of a husband who was regularly late for dinner with his wife and kids. His wife tried cajoling and nagging him to come home earlier.

But he only got defensive or told her she was overreacting. After a while, she decided to change her attitude and actions: She was going to be less angry about his lateness and more caring; and if he was going to be late, she’d eat dinner with the kids and put his food in the fridge.

She talked to her husband about her plan. He wasn’t happy about eating microwaved dinners, but she said he was welcome to rearrange his schedule to eat when the family did.

After a few days of eating many microwaved meals, he started coming home on time. He said it was because his wife was a whole lot nicer to him, so he wanted to be home – and he really hated reheating his dinner.

The Concept of “You Are not Me”

According to Cloud and Townsend, another key part of boundaries is the idea of “you are not me.” Your spouse isn’t an extension of you, and they’re not here exclusively to meet your needs.

Love breaks down when we don’t see our spouses as people but as “objects of our own needs.” This also means that when your spouse comes to you and reveals how they’re feeling – say about not feeling close to you – you don’t interpret it as an accusation and get defensive. Rather, you empathize.

“To have good boundaries is to be separate enough from the other person that you can allow her to have her own experience without reacting with your own. Such a clear stance of separateness allows you not to react, but to care and empathize.”

This also includes respecting each other’s differences – even when you don’t like them. Cloud and Townsend share the story of a husband who didn’t want to attend the same church as his wife, because he just couldn’t connect to the service. She viewed this as an affront, and believed that if he truly loved her, he would go.

Boundaries are the foundation of healthy relationships. They give partners the opportunity to grow as individuals and as a couple.

Source : http://psychcentral.com

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Four Reasons Why People Settle for Bad Relationships

Why do people settle for the wrong relationship partner?

It’s proven. People do settle. In fact, in one survey of 6,000 men, 31% of them openly admitted that they would settle for someone they didn’t love. And 21% even claimed they’d partner up with someone they found unattractive.

How many additional people settle, but would never admit it? How many people knew they were with the wrong person, even as they walked down the aisle?

Diving into this question takes us straight down the path toward the deeper issues in life, so let’s get to it. Here are four reasons why people settle, according to experience and research.

1. People settle due to fear of being alone.

A recently published study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology has found that fear of being single is a major predictor of settling for bad relationships. According to lead author Stephanie Spielmann, people who have stronger fears about being single tend to be willing to settle for less in their relationships.

This may lead them to stay in relationships that they aren’t happy in, and sometimes they may choose to date people who are not good for them. In fact, people’s anxiety about being single plays a key role in these and other types of unhealthy relationship behaviors.

The researchers from the University of Toronto’s Department of Psychology surveyed samples of adults from across Canada and the U.S., including University of Toronto undergraduates. The samples covered both men and women across a wide range of ages.

The study found that both men and women experienced the same concern and anxieties about being single, and that these feelings create similar behaviors. This directly contradicts the popular stereotype that only women experience a fear of being single.

Loneliness is a painful experience regardless of gender; and according to Professor Geoff MacDonald of the University of Toronto’s Department of Psychology, fear of being single does not discriminate on basis of gender.

2. People settle because they don’t know how to create solid relationships.

Psychotherapist Jake Eagle, co-author of the Dating, Relating and Mating online educational program, claims that most people get the dating, relating and mating process all wrong.

In essence, we:

• Don’t date enough people before committing to one.

• Share intimate information too readily early in the dating process (missing the chance to just have fun together and establish a friendship).

• Have sex too soon.

• Get married first, then attempt to solve problems in the relationship.

• Don’t measure compatibility in terms of values, life dreams, communication styles and often chemistry.

• Are unwilling to end a relationship that clearly doesn’t work because they are driven by unresolved psychological issues.

When you don’t date around, become intimate before you know the character of the person you are with, get married before you’ve had adequate time to learn to solve problems, then you are set up for failure.

Given that so few people fully understand the rigors of creating a relationship intentionally, many may settle because – well – they simply give up trying to figure out how it is supposed to work.

3. People settle due to external pressures.

• Mom and dad expect you to marry and have their grandchildren. They approve of the person you are with now, so….you just do it.

• Mom and dad HATE the person you are with and this appeals to your rebelliousness, so you just do it!

• You need a way to support yourself and your partner makes good money.

• All your friends are getting married and you want to attend the barbecues.

• And so on.

4. People settle due to the compelling nature of self-sabotage.

Self-sabotage is rarely discussed in relation to choosing a romantic partner. However, once you understand self-sabotage, this is a hard one to ignore.

It’s safe to say that people regularly engage in relationships with others in which they feel chronically rejected, controlled or deprived of their needs. It is also safe to say (in many cases) that people experience the rejection, control and deprivation before they show up at the altar.

Why would someone marry another person that dishes out such psychological angst? According to psychiatrist Edmund Bergler, MD, a colleague of Freud’s, it is because we learned long ago to find familiarity or even pleasure (unconsciously) in these painful experiences.

The psychological community was shocked that Bergler would suggest that at some level we are seeking a familiar pain when making ill-fated decisions, but Freud agreed with Bergler and began to write about psychic masochism prior to his death.

Seeking an old, familiar pain that you can’t seem to shake, regardless of how consciously frustrating and depressing it is? A bad relationship fits the bill perfectly.

Source : www.psychcentral.com

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A Silent Love

by Anonymous

How can you deny me,
Something that is so true?
Our friendship is worth the world to me,
But my dream is to be close to you.

We support each other endlessly,
Giving hope through thick and thin.
But my heart bleeds constantly to be near to you,
Whispering the word, When?

I gave you a path to my heart,
And on it you certainly found your way.
Now lying in my spirit,
I dream of us everyday.

And it’s the mystery that lies within you,
Your soul I wish to be near.
But as for now I will continue loving you,
Quietly remaining here...

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Another Dream

by ITSme

Last night I saw you in my dream
  and you were going away
I didn't get to say good-bye
  or even get to say...
The things I would have liked to..
  or tell you that I care
I guess it didn't matter much
  'cuz you never were aware..
That I even loved you
  within this time and space...
But, in my dream it was a different time
  and it was a different place

You were gone so long and I
  never knew where you were
But, then one day the phone rang, and
  you said, "Hi, It's me, I'm here"
I asked, "who is this?" and you said
  "yes, it's really me...
Just look outside your window..
  take a look and see."
There you were... just standing there
  a smile upon your face
I couldn't believe you were there
  right outside my place

I didn't say a word 
  but, I slowly put down the phone...
And anxiously walked over to you
  and then we were alone
Your arms around me holding tight,
  holding me so near
I couldn't believe this was happening
  then you whispered in my ear
You said you've always loved me 
  and forever you'd be here.
And then I woke up crying
  my pillow... wet from tears

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Your Mirror

YOUR MIRROR

by LEIDY CARBONELL

Look into my eyes, I want to be your mirror. 
You see yourself serious 
  And I can't think of a better comedian. 
You see yourself- not romantic 
  And I don't think a poet could express with words 
  Or a painter thru paint how you make me feel. 

You think your smile is not cute, 
  And I loved it since the first time I saw you. 
You think your eyes are not special 
  And I can't think of any sweeter look. 
You think your face is not beautiful, 
  And, yet, it is the only one I love looking at 
  every time I have a chance. 

You see yourself as a normal guy, 
  I haven't seen a person as wonderful as you yet.
I know that when you hear something more than twice 
  You start to believe. 
If it is necessary I would spent my whole life telling you this. 
  I love you and is impossible for you to be better 
  ...because, to me, you are prefect

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Holding You

by Adam L Klein

Being next to you is where I love to be,
It takes away my worries and sets my heart free.
When I hold you in my arms nothing can compare,
I look into your eyes and I cannot help but stare.

 And, stare I do, at your beautiful face,
It makes my heart beat at a truly amazing pace.
When I touch your face I begin to shine,
It's then that I realize you are mine.

 It's in your arms I feel no fear,
It's in your arms my thoughts are clear.
Clear, that in my arms I hold a treasure,
A gift from God that I cannot measure.

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Distance Can't Keep Us Apart

by GurLie Cagomoc

Even though we're far apart
Our love and happiness is near in our heart.

We can be hundreds of miles away
Or even thousands of miles away
It doesn't matter 
Because we'll be together through our hearts.

Far apart or near together
What we share is something that can't be broken.

No matter where you may be
I will be there, all you have to do is think of me
And we'll be together closer than ever.
And when I want to think of you
All I do is close my eyes and dream of you and me.

Through our dreams we will find happiness
When we find happiness we find each other.
When we think we can't find love
Because we're not close together,
Just think of all the love we have for one another
And think of the many days that will come 
When we will be together one on one.

Thinking of us being together
I know you'll find love and happiness.
With the love we share
Nothing, not even distance, can keep us apart.
The stronger our love, the closer we'll be.
Love is what keeps us together always and forever.
And even though we're far apart
We'll always be connected heart to heart. 
Distance is never a problem 
Because distance can't ever keep us apart.

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To the Man I Love

by LaToi Davis

The night I met you I knew
I never wanted to lose you.
So I followed my heart and soul
And fell in love with all you do.

The way your big, brown eyes
Seem to see straight inside of me
I get lost, I'm mesmerized
But there's no place else I'd rather be.

The way I feel when your lips touch mine
You take my breath away.
I cherish every second I am with you
But there's never enough time in a day.

The way you hold me in your arms
I can feel your heart beating next to mine
I melt into you when you whisper in my ear
That we'll make it; that we'll be just fine.

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Ever Since The Day We Met

by Cheryl Ann

Ever since the day we met 
I've known within my heart
our love is something special
I've felt it from the start.

Each and every day since then
I've dreamed of you each night.
I feel the love inside me grow
and long to hold you tight.

When I look into your eyes
I sense you feel it, too.
Our hearts have found each other
this love of ours is pure and true.

You are my soul mate, sweetheart,
you are my dream come true;
From now until the day I die
all my love I give to you.

Now that we are together
I know we'll never part;
The distance may divide us
but you're always in my heart.

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The Way You Make Me Feel

by Bahar Tabatabai

No one makes me feel 
the way you do
the way you make me go crazy 
just looking at you

i've never been so in love 
with someone so sweet
never fallen so far
or in so deep

when you put your arms around me
i feel protected and safe
and no one in the world
can ever take your place

i love when we hug
and even more when we kiss
i dunno how i'm gonna survive when i'm away
with someone like you to miss

i think of you every second 
every minute, every day
and you know i care about you
in every possible way

you can always count on me
when you're feeling down and low
you can open your heart to me
and let your feelings show

because nothing about you
would ever make me run away
and everything about you
makes me want to stay

i promise to never leave you
and i know i'll never have a reason
because you love me
with the deepest of meaning

so know now
that i'm here for you
and know forever
that i will always love you

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I won't hurt you

i won't hurt you

by DIanah K. C.

you're the only one i want 
and you always make me smile
i care so much about you
you make my life worthwhile

baby, please don't be afraid
i won't ever ever hurt you
that's a promise i know i'll keep
cause that's something i could never do

i know that you've been hurt before
honey, i have, too
but i'm not like her 
i just couldn't do that to you

i want you to know i care 
and i'll wait as long as you need
maybe that will help you see
exactly how much you mean to me.

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You Changed My World

You Changed My World
by Kimberly Lynn Albrecht

At times the days seemed so long, I thought I'd never make it through,
Then suddenly, out of a dream, I have met someone like you. 
I had locked up all my feelings and I'd thrown away the key,
Until your heart spoke a thousand words I knew were meant to be.
When times turned rough and lonely, and despair fell upon my face,
You comforted me and kept me safe in that loving special place.

You don't realize what you have and what you've done for me,
But the way you managed to steal my heart is what has set me free.
You've given me a feeling that no one else could ever change,
Your love has touched a place in me that I always found so strange.
It's as if you were cut right out of a spell cast upon my heart,
Because the crazy thing about it is, I've loved you from the start.

No one in this wide world could touch the feelings we share;
To the seconds I spend with you, nothing can compare.
You've opened my eyes and heart just enough and let me live,
You've changed my world with magic and the kindness that you give.
My heart was broken, and I thought love was so far away,
But you came into my life and showed me a better day.

Like crystal clear blue waters or a magical sunset,
That moment speaks a thousand words to which no price can be met.
I wish I could just stop time and spend the whole night in your eyes,
For when I'm with you there's a feeling even I cannot describe.
Although my heart holds painful memories that will never be erased,
You touch me with a love so strong it hides that lonely place.

Heartbreak, loss and misery were all I ever knew,
Until someone showed me happiness and that someone was you.
Your gentle words and loving arms lift me up when I am down,
And, baby, with all you've done for me you've turned my world around.
Your love is so consistent, like the waves that break on shore,
And with every day my love for you still grows, just more and more.

When broken dreams still fill my days and nothing's going right,
You reassure me with your smile and give me back my sight.
You sweep a spell across my heart, like a breeze across the sea,
And you fill my world with beautiful dreams & feelings meant to be.
The way you live, the way you love and even so much more,
With every smile that you give, you're all I could ask for.

You are in every breath I take and in every tear I cry,
You're in every star I wish upon up in the lonely sky.
Every day with you is heaven, like an angel from above,
A million magic moments sent- to give you all my love.
You are living proof that prayers and dreams really do come true,
And I thank God for that special day he blessed my heart with you.

I could speak of a thousand promises or even bet my very soul,
the rest of my life, I'll be touched with a feeling no one can control.
Fate, destiny or magic may be the reason that we met,
But all I know is the days with you I never will forget.
Until the day I found you I never knew a love so true,
But from today until eternity I swear I'll be loving you!

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You Make Me Happy

by Jesse DeLance Sutton

You came into my life
At a time I needed someone
To hold me in the darkest
Hours.
You capture my heart
With all the glory
Of love’s power.
I was like a sailor
That was lost at sea.
You came into my life at the darkest
Moment and rescued me.


I look back and wonder how
Did I get this far without
Your love.?
When we are together, you make my heart sing,
And I feel like I am on top of
The world.
Now I can tell you that in my life
Nothing remains the same.
When I look into those
Beautiful eyes I can see this love lasting for
An eternity.
I know from the little time
That we have been together that 
you were made for me.


You have made me happy
Beyond all means.
I can’t forget 
what the joy of
Being with you brings.
Before you came, my tears in the midnight hour
Flowed like the mid summer rain.


I was so lonely and needed
Someone that would love me
And hold me in her loving 
Arms.
Before I met you, everyday was the
Saddest days of my life.
Now with you, I now have someone to help
Me through life darkest storms.
With you in my life I 
Feel ten feet tall and am riding
So high.


I never thought that love could
Bring so much joy
Into my life.
The feeling that I feel when I am 
With you, makes my spirit feel so
High.
I will love and cherish you
And the happiness you brought
Into my life until the day I die.


You have made me so happy,
I cannot find words to explain just
How good you make me feel.
I will give you the best of my 
Love and so much more as
Long as I shall live.
Together as we stand and repeat our
Vows of love.
We will be a living testimony of
What true love does.


My vows to you will be true and my love
For you will be forever.
I will always be there for you
And to leave you in the future, 
I will never.
I will hold and cherish you and give
You all the love your heart
Can stand.
For baby, you have made this
Guy a very happy man.


I love you my beautiful lady that
Came into my life just
In the nick of time.
Today, tomorrow and forever
You will always be mine.
And I will love you until
Time is no more.
You are the one that I will forever
Adore, and I will hold you close to my
Heart and I will never let you go.
For you and I will be together as one as long
As we shall live.
And to you all that I have I will gladly give.
Thanks my love for making
Me the happiest man in the world.

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6 Ways to Make Your Husband Love You Again

A marriage does not guarantee love for ever. Even when a couple stay together for life, most times it is not out of love but because they have gotten too comfortable with each other and do not want to change their daily patterns. The same could happen to you too. You could be happily married, but there could be no love in your marriage as you and your husband get bogged down with the responsibilities of managing your home, work and kids. When familiarity sets in, there is very little love to go around. A loving marriage and a husband who loves you are important to make you happy and healthy. Here are some ways in which you can make your husband love you again.

1. Spend some time with him

Make it a point to spend some alone time with him every day. Finish all your work a little early and go to bed with a fresh mind. Sometimes, you might be spending the whole day under the same roof with him, but not really talk to him. Talk to him more and understand him more to make him love you again.

2. Try to be the same person he fell in love with

Women always complain that men do not treat them the same way they treated them when they were going out. Although this is true, women are not completely blameless either. Women change too, after the wedding. Try to be as close to the person you were when you two were in love and he will love you again with the same fervor.

3. Get creative in bed

Sex is an important part of a marriage. With kids and work, you might not look forward to it more often or enjoy it with the same fervor you used to when you were just married. Get creative in bed and try out new positions and play act new scenarios to make your husband love you love

4. Give him his space

Sometimes he may not like you more just because you are always around him and constantly bugging him. Give him his space to think and do things that he likes. You do not have to constantly flutter around to show him your love. When he knows that you respect his space and are comfortable letting him do his things, he will definitely love you more.

5. Show more enthusiasm for his interests

If he is a sports fan or into gadgets, do not make a face. Learn more about his interests and show some enthusiasm even if it is fake. He will love you more and love you again just for the effort you put in to make him happy.

6. Surprise him often

Break the routine of the daily life with a surprise dinner, gift or a short trip. Get some sexy down time together. Make him feel like he is the most handsome man in the planet. When you make him feel special and treat him like a king, he will love you for sure.

Source : Mag for Women

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5 Way to Make Your Marriage More Romantic

Marriage is an institution that is both revered and also hated by many. People who do not like marriage are those who think that you do not need an official seal to your relationship. But a lot of people get married and they are in the majority. No one gets married thinking it is for a short while, many a times people get married because they have decided to spend their lives with someone. Marriage in most cases is long term and to stay happy for a long time in a marriage, you need to fill it with love and also romance. The mundane things about daily life usually kill off the love and the romance in a marriage. It is very important to bring in romance and up the factor now and then if you want to stay satisfied and happy with the same person for years. Here are some ways in which you can make your marriage more romantic.

1. Say I love you as many times as you can

The three simple words can go a long way in changing the nature of your marriage. You do not have to stop expressing your love for your partner just because you are married. Saying I love you makes you a romantic person and someone who can express their feeling without being embarrassed about it. Go ahead and say it as many times as you can in a day to make your marriage more romantic.

2. Get away on romantic trips

You can act like love smitten people and just get away to some place for a day or two without really planning. There is a lot of fun and excitement when you really have not planned anything and you just enjoy the trip as you make it.

3. Get dressed and go out

Take as much care in your dressing as you would have when you were single and planning to meet someone. Look gorgeous and go out to have a romantic dinner or a booze filled party. Sometimes doing stupid things like getting drunk and making out in the car can also make your marriage more romantic and exciting. Just make sure you do not create a nuisance in the whole process.

4. Express your love online too

If you are on each other’s social media profiles online, you can also state your love there. Post cute pictures or messages online to show each other how you love one another. Expressing your love in public and not feeling shy about it can also make your life a lot more romantic.

5. Get physical

You do not have to have sex alone to get physical in your marriage. Touch each other a lot. Hug and kiss when you can. Hold hands when you are out on a walk or when you are with people. The physical proximity and closeness is also important when you are trying to bring back romance to a bigger level in your marriage.

Being Romantic is not a thing to be shy about. Even if you are ribbed about it, it is your marriage that matters to you and you should be open showy in your expressions of love and romantic nature.

Source : Mag for Women

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6 Tips for Making Him More Romantic

6 Tips for Making Him More Romantic

Has there been a lull in your relationship recently? Is your boyfriend’s attention waning away from you? Here are a few things you can do to ignite a romantic spark in him and make him more romantic than ever before.

1. Ignore him

You may be making yourself too easily available to your boyfriend because of which he could have lost interest in you. Don’t make him take you for granted by being there at his beck and call all the time. If you want to make him yearn for you, ignore him and be unavailable whenever he expects you to be there. This will make him sit up and take notice that your attention towards him is not the same as before. As a result, he may try to up his game up becoming more caring and romantic.

2. Be flirtatious in reasonable amounts

Making your boyfriend jealous is a sure shot way to make him realize that he is not being romantic enough. When your boyfriend is looking, flirt with another guy in a way that he becomes jealous. Keep doing this until you notice that your boyfriend has started becoming concerned. Show him that other guys will readily become romantic with you if he doesn’t.

3. Give him subtle verbal hints

It may be the case that your boyfriend wants to become more intimate with you but he doesn’t know how to. If he is introverted and shy, he may find it difficult to flirt with you or woo you in a romantic way. Make it a point to drop subtle verbal hints of being romantic when you talk to him. For example, if you have just seen a romantic movie with him, tell him how you wish be in the actress’ shoes.

4. Initiate the romance

You may have to take the first step in the process of making your boyfriend more romantic. Whenever you feel like being romantic, hold your boyfriend’s hand, give him a soft tug, put your arm around his back or run your hands through his hair. Once you are able to initiate romance with these gestures, your boyfriend will understand that these are your signals to seek more romance from him.

5. Go on a double date

Going on a double date can be an effective way to make your boyfriend more romantic. When your boyfriend witnesses the chemistry of the couple with whom you are double dating, he may feel that he needs to rekindle the spark in your relationship too. By giving him the context of another relationship, you will be able to send him a clear message without actually being verbal about it.

6. Pamper your boyfriend’s ego

Did you know that your boyfriend could be losing his romantic side because his ego is not being stoked enough? A man’s romantic and sensual side towards his woman can be governed by his ego. If that takes a beating, it could be the reason why he is not being romantic enough. Give him compliments for his manliness, appreciate the small things that he does for you and make him feel like your protector. Feeling good about himself will help him to become more romantic.

Source : Mag for Women

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My One and Only

by Rhyne Soriano Beniga

You'll always be my one and only,
the one I'll never forget.
The times we share are always special,
memories, I won't ever regret.

I care for you deeply
and give to you my heart.
I always knew you could be the one for me,
I fell in love with you, right from the start.

All I want to do is hold you close
and never let you go.
Tell me you'll stay here with me,
please, don't tell me, 'No'.

Your love comforts me at night,
it never leaves me lonely.
You're all I'll ever need in life,
you are truly my one and only.

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Please Let Me Love You

by Karen Robertson

Please let me love you, surrender your heart and give me at least one chance to prove to you how I feel.

Please let my love show you all the ways in my heart, that my love for you is so right and so real.

Please allow me to open my heart's fragile doors and embrace you, holding you close to me.

Please let me demonstrate that my love can give your heart wings and set you free.

Please let me prove my worthiness that I will never hurt you like you've been hurt so many times before.

Please lend me your heart even if just for a moment and together in love, on the wings of passion to the heavens in ecstasy we will soar.

Please don't be afraid to accept my love, please don't push me away. If you let me in your life, I will prove to you my love will never fade, and as long as you still want me, I promise by your side I will stay.

Please try to understand that I cannot change how I feel for you overnight. I love you and that is simply a fact.

Please know that as I gaze up at the first stars of the evening, and wish that you were still mine, my salty tears are shining in the soft moonlight.

Please let me love you, for no matter how far apart or how different our relationship may be, we are meant to be together and this I pray that you will soon see.

Please just love me, for this is all I'll ever ask, and in return, I'll always love you right back.

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Scared I'll lose you

Scared I'll lose you!

by Alisha Lynn Navarette

 Baby this is hard for me,
 More than you'll ever know,
 I'm falling for you quickly,
 My love just grows and grows.
 I want your arms around me,
 I want you to hold me tight,
 I can't fight this feeling,
 No matter what I try.
 I'm scared that I will lose you,
 I don't want you to go,
 You showed me the meaning of love,
 Something I have never known.
 When you are away,
 I wonder what you do,
 Scared that you will go, 
 Find somebody new.
 Baby I do love you,
 But it is hard for me to say.
 I want you by my side,
 Each and every day.
 I promise I will treat you,
 The best that I know how. 
 Loving you is easy,
 It will always make me proud.
 I know what people say,
 They don't think that we will last.
 But God is on our side,
 He forgot about our past.
 I think that we will make it,
 I don't care what others say,
 God brought us together for a reason,
 And I am thankful every day.
 Do you feel this feeling
 That I feel deep in my heart?
 I think God's trying to tell us,
 We were never meant to be apart.
 Love Always

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To Be Together Again

by Trey Godfrey

With every moment we spend together I feel more and more alive,
but every time you say goodbye part of my heart and soul still dies.

I yearn to hold you in my arms again and hug with a passionate 
  squeeze, baby please,
The pain of missing you hurts like a deadly disease,

Only healed by the delicate tones and the words that you speak,
but like TLC sang, baby my knees still get so weak,

And I lose control of my senses with unfathomed desire,
with this unquenchable thirst, only sated by the fire

In your eyes, your heart, your spirit mind and soul,
ever since I first met you, you've taken a strong hold

Of my heart when it was empty and at its most hollow
and you filled it with your charm and a path for this lost soul 
  to follow

That led straight to your heart...one way in and no way out,
and showed me this inner love I can never live without.

It's like a smooth sonnet or a melodic rhapsody,
the way you just eased into my life and fully captured me

In your sweet web of charm...if it's a dream, let me sleep
into eternity, never to leave this blissful retreat.

I dream of your silky brown hair and your soft, wet lips,
gentle touches, massages, caresses from your smooth fingertips.

I dream our love for each other is finally revealed
in one kiss so passionate our ecstasy unreels

And entangled us two lovers in a knot so tough,
that all the miles that separate us would never be enough

To keep us from being each other's king and queen, on the throne 
  of desire,
vowing together forever, with an endless love that will never tire.

Oh, to be together again.

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89 Ways To Avoid Divorce

89 Tips for a Divorce-Proof Marriage:

1. Do it by surprise from time to time, leave love notes around the house.

2.Work as a team.

3. Say I love you to one another everyday.

4. Give a hug or kiss everyday

5. Do not withhold sex unless its a mutual consent or special circumstances!

6. At least one date night once a week, and go over and beyond to make it special

7. Become each others best friend

8. Let no one get involved with your marital affairs includes parents, in laws and friends!

9. Exercise and work out together

10. Put your children first, then your marriage, then your extended family, then everything else in that order.

11. Become transparent with one another.

12. Set boundaries for your marriage. It's important that you both know what you can and cannot do.

13. Lay aside your pride and ego – the winner of the argument is usually the loser!

14. Make his or her favorite meal.

15. Do things your spouse loves without you basing it on their performance.

16. Don’t go tit for tat. Learn to let go.

17. Don’t let the sun go down while you angry – another words try to resolve the issue ASAP

18. Fellowship, and get around other happily married couples

19. Plan and surprise your spouse with a romantic vacations as your budget allows

20. Live a healthy lifestyle

21. Look into his or her eyes, touch their face and give thanks for him or her who puts up with you during the good and bad times

22. Don’t lie to each other. A hard truth is always better then an easy lie

23. Ask your mate if their are any needs going unmet.

24. Spend some type of quality time with your spouse

25. Invest in your marriage – do a marriage retreat at least 2x a year

26. Read Quran together and discuss God's plan for marriage.

27. Renew your vows – remember your promise to your spouse at the alter – for better or worse in sickness and in health.

28. Be ready to make many sacrifices – things you may not feel like doing – but do them anyway

29. Be ready to make many compromises.

30. Listen to your spouse’s guidance.

31. Ask your mate for areas where they can improve in.

32. Hear one another out.

33. Try to resolve problems and issues when your both calm.

34. Instead of trying to be right look for the solution that brings peace.

35. Do not use sarcasm.

36. Tell your spouse you can’t live without them.

37. If you know you did wrong, be ready to make things right.

38. Be ready to apologize and be ready to forgive when the situation arises.

39. Fight for your marriage!

40. Don’t focus on your spouse weakness but focus on their strengths.

41. Keep good company around you and your ,you want people who can encourage and uplift you!

42. Husbands help out around the house – remember that your wife is a helpmate but that doesn't mean she does everything.

43. Wives encourage your husband give them praise, it strengthens them.

44. Find out your strengths and weaknesses and be ready to help one another with where you are weak.

45. Support one another goals and dreams.

46. Always consult one another when making big decisions

47. Give many compliments to one another

48. Understand the grass is not greener , you just have to water your lawn more

49. Don’t compare your marriage with someone else’s – you dont know whats goign on behind closed doors

50. Watch what you take into your spirit. Today’s reality shows, our society’s view, and what you see on TV are not good examples for marriage.

51. Never embarrass your spouse in public – deal with your issues in private

52. Wives spend time encouraging him and supporting him and their is nothing you won’t happily get.

53. Do not verbally abuse your spouse.

54. Do not physically abuse your spouse.

55. Do not bring up your past arguments, and disagreements.

56. Never bring up or use something in an argument, your spouse told you in confidence about him or her.

57. Let your spouse know you can be trusted.

58. Don’t give your spouse any reason to feel insecure.

59. Read books on becoming a better husband.

60. Read books on becoming a better wife.

61. Learn your spouses love language.

62. Always be in a learning process with getting to know your spouses likes and dislikes.

63. Husbands make love to her mind during the day and the rest will follow

64. Try not to let your children see you in disagreement or arguing.

65. Husbands surprise her with roses and the like, not just for birthdays, holidays and anniversary, but just because

66. Wives, your husbans love surprises also, put on one of his favorite nighties just because.

67. Don’t always try to get your way, but try to find a way that works for both of you

68. Alone time – yes its needed, but don’t go overboard. Let your mate know your thinking of them

69. Its healthy to have your time with friends, so long as they respect your marriage

70. Never cheat.

71. Never try to justify a wrong.

72. Stay fit and stay looking your best for your husband or wife.

73. Hear your spouse out before jumping to conclusions.

74. Don’t keep your spouse in the dark about things.

75. Never bad mouth your spouse to anyone.

76. Keep your love life between the two of you.

77. Your objective should be to make your spouse a better person as a result of being with you not by control but by love.

78. Open your spouse up to new things that are healthy for him or her.

79. Be open to new things, allow your spouse the chance to treat you like a king or queen

80. Communicate – he or she cannot read your mind.

81. Say what you mean, mean what you say.

82. Take your time to cool off, but when you start acting like room-mates your marriage is in trouble

83. Love, respect, loyalty and faithfulness should all be a given.

84. Have a vision and purpose for your marriage

85. Keep in mind your spouse is not your enemy but your best friend

86. Don’t look at marriage as an obligation but look at it as chance to love your mate unconditionally.

87. Our character should reflect the fruits of the spirit, love, patience, kindness, long suffering

88. Your objective should not be to change your spouse, but for your spouse to see your change

89. You cant change your spouse, but you can change how you love them and how you react to them